Dear Mummy-to-be

I wish I had realised how much my life would change after I became a mum. I like to think that I made the most of the time that I had to myself, although there's a few things I probably would have done while I had the time (sorting out the spare room is just one of the jobs I will probably never get round to doing now)

It's taken me a while to actually think back to this time last year and recall what I did with my time. 

I never really took much notice of people when they told me that I wouldn't get as much time to myself after I have a baby. I thought they were exaggerating, that's how gullible I was. 

So here's a list of things that I enjoyed doing before I was running around after my little gremlin. 

If you're a mummy-to-be please take note. Enjoy! 

• Indulge in long soaks in the bath. If you're struggling to sleep then this bath soak from Mum and Me will work wonders for you, it has camomile in it and really relaxes you if you have a bath before bedtime.

• Have as many lie-ins as you can. I've always been an early bird, one of those annoying people who's body clock wakes them up super early even at the weekends. Boy do I miss my rare lie-ins now. I won't scare any sleep lovers by revealing my daily wake-up time....

• Catch up with your girls. Have movie nights, dinner, or just a good ol' chinwag. It's nice to see your friends, even nicer without a cheeky gremlin in tow who steals all the attention. 

• Date nights! What's that again? Oh yeah I remember now. Squeeze in a date night as often as you can. Cook together, eat together, go to the movies, go out for a meal. I don't mean to sound so bossy but surely you can feel my frustration. If not for yourself then do it for me! Hubby's long working hours + bubba's early bedtime = no date nights for us. So enjoy them while you can, it's easier to arrange a date night when you're not worrying about babysitters etc. 

• Pamper yourself. Get your hair done, treat yourself to a facial, paint your nails. Indulge in some beauty therapy, if that's your thing. You'll look and feel fabulous, more importantly you'll look every inch the yummy mummy once your bundle of joy comes along. 

• Retail therapy! This is probably the last thing on your mind, but if you like to get dressed up and look nice (which most of us do) then buying a few outfits for your post baby wardrobe is a sensible idea. No need to spend a fortune, just a few pieces that you can slip into when you are out with bubba. Take it from someone who has had just a few wardrobe related meltdowns since becoming a mum. It's nice to have something new, and clean to wear when you're out and about showing off your baby (who happens to have reflux, but that's another story for a different day) 

• Finally, devote time to your hobbies. Whether that's reading, painting, cooking, baking, sunbathing. Whatever you like doing in your spare time, do it  while you have some spare time. Newborn babies require a lot of your attention and if you are anything like me then you will probably forget what you enjoyed doing before you became a mum. Luckily it doesn't last forever, once babies get into a routine then you will have time to do the things you love.

Hope this has helped, and not scared any mumy's-to-be too much!

H x 

They Grow So Fast

I saw this post on Facebook a while ago and it makes me feel quite emotional. 

I'm glad I held my boy more than people thought I should. Rocked him, sang to him, cuddled him some more. 

Now at ten months, he doesn't need to be held as much- he's far too independent for that. It's all about crawling about, climbing things and discovering everything in his stride now. You know they are no longer a little baby wen they can hold their bottle, feed themselves and crawl away when it's nappy changing time. 

Forget what everyone says. Make the most of every second with your baby while they are still a baby. As the quote says: he is only a baby for just a while. 

H x 

Pamper Time

It's taken the best part of nine months, but I finally took some time out for myself this afternoon. Leaving Baby A in the capable hands of his dad, off I went for a massage and a facial. Lucky me hey, it was even better than it sounds. My treatments lasted an hour... I don't know where I drifted off to for those 60 minutes but it was pure bliss. I can't remember the last time I felt so relaxed. 

My brain is always ticking away, it never stops. When I'm not running around after the gremlin, 'me time' usually consists of a coffee on the sofa, phone in hand checking emails/Instagram/showbiz goss/twitter. It's been a very long time since I switched off and just drifted away.

My half body massage was out of this world, my knotty back and shoulders felt weightless. The facial was an added bonus as I booked the June promo. Oh how I've missed facials, I mean the ones where you just lay there while a professional gets to work on your face: not the ones you quickly slap on when you have a spare 5 minutes before bedtime. Huge thanks to the team at Highfield Beauty, and especially to Natalie who made me feel like my youthful, less tense self. 

The current promotion is a half body massage and Dermalogica revive facial for £39, available throughout June. Contact Highfield Beauty for more info. 

I'll be back for more pampering soon ladies, it's always a pleasure. 

H x 

Coming Soon: Naked Smoky Eye

I need this in my life! As a make-up enthusiast and Naked Palette fan, I cannot wait for the Smoky Eye palette to be released. I've been experimenting with my current Naked Palette's and my Sleek palette to create various smoky eye looks. I was never a huge fan of smoky eye, I have the darkest circles under my eyes so dark eye shadows didn't really compliment me very well. After a lot of makeup experimenting I have found a few looks that work for me, so it's perfect timing Urban Decay to launch yet another of my favourite eyeshadow palette, in smoky eye shades.

I can't wait to get my hands on one of these! Released July 8th 2015!

Baby A's travels: The Library of Birmingham

This wasn't the first time that Baby A has visited a library, but it was his first visit to the fantastic Library of Birmingham.
We attended the Shake Rattle and Rhyme session on Thursday morning. I was unaware that the session takes place weekly during term time. I just happened to be browsing the website last week whilst I was planning a visit. So we went along on Thursday to have a sing-song, it was a busy session and then there's a stay and play until 1pm. We got a little goody bag of nursery rhymes and stickers to take home with us, but left well before 1pm. I wanted to take my boy to the secret garden, I absolutely love it up there and as it was a hot sunny day it was the perfect opportunity to soak up some rays.

I would recommend attending the singing session at 11.30am, I would have liked to stay for the stay and play afterward too but it was too crowded, and some parents are quite inconsiderate, they aren't very mindful whilst walking around and almost trample over smaller children playing on the floor. Other than that, I'd give it a go just make sure you get there a little earlier to ensure you get a good seat!

Review: The Ultimelt Cleanser

I love hot cloth cleansers, I've always been a Cleanse & Polish kind of a gal. In my eyes Liz Earle is the queen of skincare and all other cleansers don't even scratch the surface. That was until I discovered the Soap and Glory Ultimelt Hot Cloth Cleanser.
Use in the same way as any hot cloth cleanser: rub onto your face, massage for 1-2 minutes, run your cloth under a hot tap and place on your face. Let the hot cloth sink into your skin for a few seconds, and then wipe away. Voila, you are left with smooth makeup-free skin, which smells quite tasty. Then again, all Soap and Glory products do!

At a price of £10, it's a steal! A fantastic bargain for a mini pamper, go on treat yourself. Available on the Soap and Glory website and Boots.com

Pssst...Boots currently have an offer on their S&G products; buy one get second half price.

Outdoor Fun

In the summertime when the weather is fine....I want to be outdoors! 

So with my little boy in tow, we took a trip to the Nature Centre in Edgbaston. 

This was my first visit, but I've heard great things about it. 

I was so surprised to see a range of animals, we might as well have come here instead of the zoo! (I don't actually mean that, I do love the zoo) 

They have everything here from Lemurs, meerkats, monkeys, a whole host of reptiles and otters. 

This is an ideal place to visit if you love animals but don't want to trek all the way to a zoo. It won't take up your whole day, although it could if you wanted to. With an admission price of just £5.50 for adults it's a steal for value for money. I highly recommend visiting the nature centre whether you have children or not. I can't believe this place is on my doorstep. As an animal lover, and a mum, I will definitely be visiting again. I might even take the hubby along next time! 

H x